The Wife is King
beautifulfdominance:

Really?
Hi! I'm very interested in your relationship because you seem to be in a polyamorus one? Or would you consider it an open one? Either way I would like to learn more because it's something I'm interested in

kitarcane:

We’re poly, not open. We’re exclusive within the three of us and aren’t open (at the moment) to anyone else. We’ve talked about bringing another girl into bed occasionally, but nothing serious just for fun.

Do you have any specific questions?

Well, who brought it up first and what kind of communication was there? Were there ground rules? Was anybody really hesitant and how did you make them feel comfortable about it?

kitarcane:

It was really a group thing, because we were all sitting down and talking about relationships, and I mentioned that I wanted a poly pod. Boss and Captain shared a “meaningful look”, and it changed the tone of everything because they realized I was open to it. We talked about what all we would want in the relationship, and one of the things I mentioned was that it had to be equal, and I was not in any circumstance be a secondary because I would leave.

The ground rule of equality, and that it would be a closed group are the only rules we really talked about at first till the relationship formed, then we formed 5 rules

  1. No lying
  2. Put everything out on the table (this is our favorite)
  3. No self-deprication
  4. No running away from problems
  5. "I’m fine" means you’re not fine, see Rule Number 2 and check yourself.

There were some insecurities on everyone’s part and it was actually the same insecurity shared. I was insecure about joining a couple that was so established (7 years of various history) and that they were going to end up leaving me because they realized they couldn’t do Poly or that they only really want me in a sexual context. Captain was worried that Boss and I would run off and leave him behind. Boss was afraid that I was going to show Captain more attention than her, and that I was only interested in the relationship BECAUSE of him and it’ll end up being a harem for Captain instead of a triangle.

Captain’s the only one who’s fears have been relieved for the most part because we constantly reassure him it won’t happen. As for Boss and I, those fears have been alleviated only slightly because those are fears that will be relieved with time only.

I’m still worried that Captain only wants me for sexual reasons, especially when I start to compare how much of an emotional connection he has with Boss, and Boss is slightly jealous of the silly relationship Captain and I have because we’re silly people in general.

It’s a time thing.

Any other questions?

girlsrule-subsdrool:

kitarcane:

Aftercare is best care. I’m a spoiled, loved, little Subby brat. <3


*melt* D/s threesomes make me so so happy.

girlsrule-subsdrool:

kitarcane:

Aftercare is best care. I’m a spoiled, loved, little Subby brat. <3

*melt* D/s threesomes make me so so happy.

xrayeyesblue:

Within every woman there is a domme waiting to be discovered, nurtured, worshiped and served.

xrayeyesblue:

Within every woman there is a domme waiting to be discovered, nurtured, worshiped and served.

Padlocks&#8230;.awesome

Padlocks….awesome

Training my pussy for Goddess’ use later.

Training my pussy for Goddess’ use later.

dominatingdiva4u:

My tight ass that my boy toy only gets to fondle  because of being locked in his cage! But its okay because my baby will be eating me out like never before! ;)

dominatingdiva4u:

My tight ass that my boy toy only gets to fondle because of being locked in his cage! But its okay because my baby will be eating me out like never before! ;)